Message to my Ego



I have realised I have been quite a meanie to my Ego. Blaming her for most bad things and whenever I have a human moment. I bag her in my blog and then expect her to treat me nicely, which let’s face it, would you be nice if blamed and shamed all the time?

My panic has been bad this week and it was only when Super J pointed out just how mean I have been to her that I realised Ego was putting on a show because of my hateful words.

So this is a blog to my Ego, a nice blog!

I want to take the time to Thank my Ego for being there all of my life. For protecting me from things she deemed unsafe and for putting me on the right path when I could have gone many other unsavoury ways. She has always been a guiding light to me in my darkest days, when I ignored my spiritual path and was drifting soullessly through my days. My Ego has always tried to be my voice of reason no matter if I tried to ignore her or not.


I realise the mistake has been on my behalf. I was the one who gave full responsibility to Ego and expected her to be able to lead my life, playing all the parts of me that she just cannot be expected to play. I was the one who allowed myself to dwell in her musings and not listen to the rest of me, knowing full well that Ego’s part is to question things, to make sure things are safe, and so forth.

So it is up to me to take back some of that Power and start to distribute evenly so I can live a more joyous, spiritual life. Some of Ego’s upset is that I have been doing just that, and she is feeling a little unloved when she has been the leader and my right hand man for most of my life. Know this Ego, I still love you and need you, I just don’t need you to take such a front and centre role anymore. I thank you for everything you have ever done for me and for keeping me super safe up until now. When I feel you at my side, I will still stop and see if what I am doing/saying etc. is the right thing to do, but do not get discouraged if I don’t follow your path, as we have both been too used to wrapping me in a big protective bundle and sitting in a room to be as safe as possible, so it is time we both branched out.

It is just time to try things a little differently and start really living and enjoying this human life. Knowing we have the full universe, our guides and all those other wonderful spiritual beings, human and otherwise at our side to help us along this unchartered path. I know there is going to be hiccups and side steps but I am willing to try if you are.

I love you Ego…


Have you been mean to your Ego, or started ignoring when you have always listened? Perhaps you too can take a moment to Thank and be nice to your Ego today and GENTLY let them know if their particular assistance is not necessary for that moment.


Till next time… keep walking your spiritual path xx


  1. elementhealing · November 22, 2015

    This is good 🙂


  2. AKIRAA · November 22, 2015

    Beautiful Blog! 🙂


  3. thelonelyauthorblog · November 23, 2015

    Interesting read.


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  5. Swetha M · November 27, 2015

    Great post! 😀 As much as ego seems like a needy, jealous God, we need it and we have it so we can experience human life/ physical life as rightly pointed in your post.


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  7. AmyRose🌹 · November 27, 2015

    You write from an intriguing perspective. NICE!! ❤


  8. The Twentysomething Social Recluse · November 28, 2015

    You are a fab writer, and this post is great! 🙂


  9. Lynz Real Cooking · November 28, 2015

    Wonderful thoughts and writing!


  10. magarisa · November 29, 2015

    Thank you for the important reminder that the ego is not our enemy. It has its faults, but plays the crucial role of keeping us physically safe. You summed this up perfectly here: “Know this Ego, I still love you and need you, I just don’t need you to take such a front and centre role anymore.” Brilliant!

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  11. Lulu · December 7, 2015

    Great perspective and self-compassion is very important to living a healthy life!


  12. Dream4Fun · December 18, 2015

    I have never come across a homage to ego before. I find your post refreshing and honest. Thanks, will re-read it!

    Liked by 1 person

  13. mysticalwriter12 · December 20, 2015

    Reblogged this on Mysticalwriter and commented:
    Thank you for sharing, it was an excellent blog. I went through the same thing in letting my ego take the blame for a lot of bad ideas. The thing that helped me to change it around was to rethink my negativity & change it around to a positive. I on occasion still struggle, but for the most part, live my life as a positive & spiritual person. Today I am…. Grateful!


    • yellowwolf80 · December 20, 2015

      Beautiful and thank you! I know I try as well but do have my slip ups as well, but at least always learning from it!

      Liked by 1 person

  14. dray0308 · April 10, 2017

    Reblogged this on Dream Big, Dream Often and commented:
    Aria-Bella Rises!


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